Great Indian Traffic Sense

              My fellow Indians already know all about Indian traffic sense and to my non Indian friends you can not even imagine until you visit India that what a different sense we have than the rest of the civilized world.
 Indian democracy reflects completely on our way of traveling on road. Sides are obsolete concept although hovercrafts are yet to be miniaturized but we have start practicing how to run over each other, left right doesn't matter all that matters is if you can get the tip of your vehicle in front of the other you will be able to move before him and that's all that matters being the first one to move it hardly matters if u have enough time to wait for two minutes. our punctuality reflects by the speed at which we drive. to save time at red lights we have invented a very unique method and that is to increase the speed so much that you get across the cross road before lights of your side turns red and even if they turns read by the time you reach the square then no body dares come in front your vehicle and zoom there you go.
             we Indians are in fact such big fans of punctuality that we value time over life although it is a known fact that we are seldom on time. We are busy without busy without business kind of people in terms of traffic sense we drive in a manner a person can drive only if its a matter of life or death to reach some where. If ever two people comes face to face and they have to apply breaks due to some confusion they will stare each other like to lions crossing through a territory and only one could have a claim to it, if no one says any thing every body will pass on or may be a few words are exchanges if one of the guy is in a hurry tension will not escalate but mostly both they guys not in a hurry actually they were just pretending to be so that others will let them pass so they will forget all about where they were going they will exchange abuses and if that does not decides the winner they they wrestle and if even that does not concludes then be prepared for a gang war.............................yes its quit common every body has a personal gang involving our friends brothers, cousins and colleagues this shows how closely knitted our society is...........................any ways another situation is that your vehicle touches someone's vehicle from behind he will instantly come out at you demanding compensation irrespective of any damage done or not but if the situation is reversed the very same person will tell you its no big deal even if he has punched a big hole in your car and by asking for a compensation you are violation his human rights !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
            So my dear friends next time before you pick up your vehicle think of all the things you don't like about the traffic and make sure you do not practice the same things and more over be careful because you and you alone care about your safety on the road not the man in front of you or the man by your side cares about you so be careful about your mistakes and that of others, be safe drive sensibly 

Are You Realy In Love !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love the ever green topic and forever relevant issue...........Today i got this opportunity to discuss this topic with two of my very good friends, one of them is married and the other one is not.I was amazed by the stark difference between the opinion of the two of them on the same issue despite being of the same gender(girls). No I definitely cannot tell you there names because if I'd tell you then I'd have to kill you, otherwise they will kill me......................
       Now first i will tell you about the married one. Incidentally when i was talking to her, her husband was cooking for her coz today was her off from house work (i think most of the days are her off) any ways that's not the point. Point is her idea of love. So i asked her that i am curious as to what all should a guy must do to express his love and to make his girl happy and to show how much he cares and she told me that a guys should make his girl laugh say funny things nice things to her. Should take her out on lunch or dinner could be both, movies and show her places then the girl will know that he loves her and cares for her.
       Second friend who is unmarried and as per official information have never been into a relationship(and i believe her for some very obvious reasons) again that's not the point. Point is her perception about love and relation ship according to her is nothing but a fake philosophy an hypothetical state of mind created to satisfy the need of intimacy of humans. No matter how intense the beginning is the followup is always be frustration, doubts, fights, differences, lack of interest in each other and finally ends up in indifference.
       Now these two are the two very common perceptions about love and relation ship and they are not base less they are actually very close to reality actually these two are the two faces of most of the relationships most of them begins with fiery romance candle light dinner proceed to movi dates, dinners and lunches, funny talks and life seems like heaven unfortunately all this lasts for an year or in some cases couple of years and then when hormones subsidize and reality prevails taking each other for granted becomes common, comparison, work pressure, expectations. Then people start doubting each other dialogues like "you have changed" take place of "i love you" .
      Now comes two questions why a relationship started with vows of "i will love you, protect you, take care of you, till death do us part" eventually turns in to "i will hit you, kick you, humiliate you, abuse you, till someone tear us apart". And how can we avoid it ?
    Answer to the first question is very simple now a days we get into a relationship for many good reasons like financial security, emotional security, physical attraction and many more and at time for some very funny reasons like one of my good friend told me that he does not want to marry but he has to in order to prove his reproductive capabilities...........ya i know couldn't get more stupid than this. Any ways I was saying that we marry or get into a relation ships for many reasons but for the most important reason that is love. Now may people will say how to identify or define true love because every body have their own perception and definition of love. True I totally agree with them but there is one thing that remains constant and that is the nature of love over the centuries each and every love story be it of Gods or humans, kings or commoners they all had one thing in common willingness to give everything and ask for nothing in return, keeping love over self that is the kind of love that is termed as true love..................now wait a second i am not expecting any one to go that high and far because at the end of the day we live in 21st century and that level of love is a state of mind and few lucky enough can experience that level if they are ready to risk every thing in life for true love...................well that's not practical for a person following the trends of today's money driven consumer culture because in the era of changing trends there are no guarantees. So lets look at the situation from today's common man's point of view. So first of all i will say that practical love story is a two way street and one sided passions could result in unstable minds and lives, before convincing your self  about your feelings for some one convince that person first before drowning into a dream world. So for a conventional true love both the persons should like each other at least from the beginning (not every body is lucky like shah rukh khan). And before asking that girl out on a date first ask your self that when that girl will be 10kg heavier and her complexion will get one tone darker and hairs will not be so shiny but her sense of humor her way of talking in short every thing remains the same other than her looks then will you take her out on a romantic date with the same passion or will avoid her. This question if asked honestly and answered honestly will instantly give you the correct state of your heart and this will work for girls as well but they will have to ask slightly different question because looks matters a little less to girls.
       So when you two are sure about your liking of each other then proceed with the courtship and talk a lot and when i say talk i mean by actually speaking from your mouth and listening from ears and not by speaking from your eyes and listening from your heart(god only knows if that is even possible). Communicate as much as you can and discuss serious stuff, things that you think are important to you and then you will know the true level of compatibility. Here by compatibility I do not mean that you should have every thing in common, you might get bored at times or may be don't like certain topics but you have to see that how much that effects your feeling for that person are you able to take interest in her talks even when she is talking about something totally diferent from your interests or can you listen to something really stupid with your full attentions just because she is saying that. If you can say sorry to her even when its not your fault or you can handle her mood swings without getting irritated. Then my friend be assured you are in love.                

We Want Corruption !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Today B.J.P lost Karnataka that's not a big deal. It happens all the time. The bigger question is why, because the answer to this why can clarify that whose defeat it actually was. Was it the defeat of B.J.P as a ruling party or was it the defeat of the people of India as mature and aware citizens of India.
            Right now we have two entirely different examples of the stand of India's two biggest political parties on corruption. On one hand we have B.J.P a party which sacked its very popular and reigning chief minister who could have easily ensured a second victory despite being charged with corruption charges however B.J.P did not deviated from its stand on corruption and sacked him and the result was it lost elections. One the other hand there is congress which over the period of 65 years of our Independence has the record of shielding its corrupt ministers and from time to time promoting them as well recently Salman Khurshied former law minister when  corruption charges were made against him insted of investigating the casehe was given a clean chit and  was promoted to foreign minister, Mr. Pawan bansal the railway minister was very quickly given a clean chit despite C.B.I still investigating corruption charges against him.
The CBI, in its affidavit, had later revealed that its status report had been shared with Union Law Minister Ashwani Kumar, the Attorney General, the Prime Minister's Office and the officials from the coal ministry.
Congress flatly refuses to even investigate charges against these ministers.
  Despite of this arrogance congress registered victories in Himanchal Pradesh and Karnataka..............now who is to blame for corruption and problems arising from it ??? We the people of India who failed to differentiate between those who are promoting corruption and those who are trying to stop it. No matter how much we debate on little issues or cry about rising prices and increasing terrorism and deteriorating national security situation the fact remains the same it is we the people of India who choose to be ruled by congress for 55 years and it is we the people of  India who elected Mnmohan Singh an all of his ministers to power. And in the light of these facts I can say that no one is to be blamed for corruption but we the people of India. Deep down we want corruption and not a fair system because no matter what we say in public we all want an easy and quick way out of situation and easy money and this same mentality urges us to vote for congress and bring it back to power. Now is the time to ask ourselves what do we want???? corruption or honesty because we can get only one of them you cannot expect others to be honest and do good work for you while you enjoy the loot of corruption................So to demand honesty you have to be honest first and the coming loak sabha elections are the test of our honesty as an Indian and our loyalty towards our mother land.............WAKE UP INDIA ITS TIME TO BE HONEST.
                             JAI HIND

FUTURE OF INDIA

So called young dynamic high tech generation of India. A generation expected to make India a super power a generation with a burden of expectation to provide a better India a glorious India to future generations. Are we really up to the task ???????????? From where I am looking at the situation I'll say we are not. In fact we are no where even close to what we say an average aware generation because every major issue of concern is limited to drawing room debates or once in a while public forum argument to prove that we are also educated and intellectuals. However deep down we all know the direction in which we are going. In India at an average almost every person in the age range of 15 to 35 is doing everything for one and only one reason that is to earn as much money as they can by any means possible. We study engineering not to become pioneers in engineering but to get placed in MNC's we study medical to someday become the owner of a big hospital with fat earning. Civil services comes with the tag of genius and lots of power and money.
            Every one wants to have fun and wants some one else to take responsibilities but to that person no one wants to provide any authority. Now ours is a generation which when talks about women rights and their protection your heart will be filled with proud and eyes with tears of joy watching the sensitivity in the words but the same person can be easily spotted watching a porn movie and dancing on the tunes of yo yo hunny singh's song named "main hoon balatkari" in which the singer has explained in very vulgar words how he will rape the girl whom he love so much !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  as if rape is an expression of love and the worst part is this type of thinking is getting very common in our urban educated youth and rural uneducated youth.
        The worst part of this set up is even the girls are getting use to of sexually explicit behavior. Not long ago one night stand and live in relation ships were considered as not good in India but with the advent of western culture our youth is getting more and more immoral fighting with parents short term relation ships, by hook or by crook attitude for short term gains.............we were not like this we belong to a culture where parents and teachers are kept before God. Women are worshiped and relationship as values, but we are loosing it all.
            On social awareness we will go out and protest against corruption but when it comes to us we want the easy way out  some short cut by spending few hundred buks. we want to watch IPL when chinese troops intrude in our boundaries and there is a war like situation with our two neighboring countries we want to know the score of Delhi Dare Devils and are more interested in watching cheerleaders.
            We are the future generation of India and we don't know our past, 9 out of 10 ppl cant tell the names of our last 2 presidents and prim ministers  leave alone other ministers and officers. We just don't care till the time the fire reaches our very own house.
          In this situation how we will make India a super power? youth of a superpower does not act like slaves, they live with respect. Youth of a superpower should be aware, educated, innovative and most of all should have high moral values. Now my question to every young person in India is : Do we have it in us to make our mother land a superpower in next 15 to 20 year?????????????             

RESPONSIBILITY AS AN INDIAN

A class of Indians must be very happy as china agreed to maintain status quo in bargain of demolitions of Indian army bunker and pushing back Indian army another 15 km back in thieir own boundries but there are ppl who are actually saying that this is a good bargain as no blood was shed and the and lost is barren land and just few thousand km of land should not effect bilateral ties......................these are those ppl who are a die hard fan of congress and nehre gandhi family they listen to yo yo hunny singh music, justify drinking and says publicly that the one who has not seen lahore has not seen any thing and that pakistanies are good at heart its just that terrorism is there way of defense as they are not capable to defend themselves conventionally............................believe me or not my friends these ppl are very much Indian and they are not chinese or muslims however they are the biggest threat to India and on a very sad note they are the majority population of India as i can find no other reason for the victory of congress again and again specially in states with high literacy rate like kerela and karnataka.........................so with this attitude our country is destined to doom and become as raw material source for the build up of other nation and while new economic powers will be born new milletry power will fex their muscles we will provide raw material for their wars and fuel their economy and act like a slave..........................................and in this case i will not give the army any credit as well coz role of the army is to defend their country from enemies foreign and domestic unfortunately they are unable to defend us from either one of these.............no matter how highly trained they are or how brave they are if they act like puppets and slave to a corrupt system all their capability and valor is in vain and they are no better than any other common man.........................with great powers comes great responsibility and as most powerful organization its time for the army to take control and defend our boundaries in any way they seems fit.